Planning how many children you want, and the age difference between them, is an important way to help create a harmonious family life. This is often a joyous experience for a couple wanting to start a family. However, it can also cause a strain on your relationship, particularly when disagreements or other difficulties arise, such as infertility difficulties.
You may be wanting the support to know about the different options that are available if you are thinking about having a child, including adoption and IVF. This could be something that you are wanting to do together, or it may have been brought about from a break down in the communication as your partner is finding it too difficult to discuss.
Furthermore, unexpected turns of events can sometimes be difficult to navigate as a couple. For example, experiencing an unexpected pregnancy or having difficulties during your pregnancy can cause a great deal of distress. It can help to feel supported by a professional so that you and your partner can openly communicate on the best way to manage this.
Another unexpected turn of events that can occur is in the face of separation, either during a pregnancy or later down the track when you already have children. It can be very difficult to cope with the emotions and come to an agreed decision with your partner on how to share the caregiving responsibilities.
If you have experienced any of these difficulties, or are simply wanting support to plan a family with your partner, there are a number of practitioners at VCPS who are specialised in couples therapy and family planning.
Some of the particular areas in which our psychologists can provide assistance includes:
